About

A quieter way to meet.

We built KeepItHalal because the apps we tried felt like a vending machine for faces. This is the story.

A Muslim woman reading quietly, evening light
The RayToldMe story

It started with a friend, a coffee, and a tired sigh.

In 2024, a friend showed me her inbox on a popular Muslim app - a stream of low-effort openers, recycled photos, and men asking for her number before they'd asked her name. She was 29, exhausted, and very serious about getting married.

I'm a builder. I went home and asked one question: what would an app look like if it actually slowed down? What if you couldn't shortcut someone into a yes or no with a single photo?

That became KeepItHalal. We took the parts of traditional matchmaking that worked - patience, family, seriousness of intent - and rebuilt them as a modern product.

Make the kind of product you'd want your sister on.

Ray, founder

Our mission

Halal matchmaking, taken seriously.

To help Muslims find meaningful, faith-led relationships - keeping Islamic values, respect, and compatibility at the centre of every connection.

  • Intention first

    Built for marriage and serious relationships. No swipe-for-fun, no boost auctions, no ad games.

  • Modesty by default

    Anonymous for 3 days. No photos until mutual reveal. Verification photos never seen by matches.

  • Family welcome

    Wali co-chat is built in, not bolted on. Your family is invited into the journey if you want them.

  • Quiet, not loud

    No vanity metrics. No ranks. No public profiles. Just two people, getting to know each other.

Our core values

What we stand for.

  • Islamic principles first

    Every feature is designed with Islamic values at its core - respectful, modest, and serious interactions only.

  • Community & trust

    We value the role of the Muslim community and the trust members place in one another and in us.

  • Meaningful connection

    Compatibility, serious intent, and long-term, marriage-minded relationships - never casual.

  • Safety & privacy

    Discretion, encryption, and human moderation are non-negotiable foundations of the platform.

How we're different

Built differently, on purpose.

The features other apps treat as add-ons are the foundations here.

  • Photo verification

    Every profile goes through selfie + ID verification by a human reviewer, helping ensure authenticity and safety.

  • Modesty settings

    Control photo visibility based on personal comfort and modesty preferences - your photos, your rules.

  • Curated matches, not endless swiping

    We surface carefully selected matches based on preferences and compatibility, not infinite scrolling.

  • Professional vetting service

    Optional enhanced vetting with family-led or professional checks for members who want extra assurance.

  • Family involvement

    Wali co-chat and family-aware flows recognise how important family is to Muslim marriage decisions.

  • Medal of Honor recognition

    Members who complete deep verification and demonstrate serious intent earn a visible recognition badge.

The team

A small team, on purpose.

Built across London, Toronto, and Dubai. Half Muslim, half not - all of us tired of how dating apps treated us.

Ray, Founder, RayToldMe
Founder, RayToldMe

Ray

Built KeepItHalal after watching close friends quietly suffer through swipe apps that didn't share their values. Background in product and community.

Yasmin H., Head of Trust & Safety
Head of Trust & Safety

Yasmin H.

Former trust & safety lead at two consumer platforms. Runs verification, moderation, and our 24-hour human review queue.

Imran K., Engineering
Engineering

Imran K.

Builds the matching engine and the encrypted verification pipeline. Believes a quiet product is a kind product.

Our coaches

Faith-rooted guidance, when you want it.

Optional 1:1 sessions with vetted Muslim counsellors and mentors. Booked per session — no subscription required.

  • Ustadha Hana

    Marriage & relationship coachLicensed counsellor with 12 years guiding Muslim couples through engagement, nikah, and the first year of marriage. Optional 1:1 sessions, booked per-session.

  • Br. Saif

    Pre-marriage mentorFaith-rooted mentor for brothers exploring marriage. Helps you ask the right questions before reveal - and the right questions after.

  • Dr. Layla

    Family liaisonHelps members and their walis navigate the conversation, especially in cross-cultural or revert households.

Built quietly. Built for you.

If any of this resonates, you'll feel at home.

Free to join. Verified profiles. One match at a time. A quieter way to meet.